I think I need one of these for dealing with my Boy lately. He's back to burying himself in gaming; it's like pulling teeth to get him off just to spend time with his family. Me? I don't even care so much for me this week. But the Toddler will crawl herself all over him to get his attention and it's sometimes painful to watch. Part of it is that she still doesn't use her words to ask for what she's wanting, and he's not getting it without an explicit request. And I'm feeling that what I want to scream is "get the fuck off the game and pay attention!" Which while attracting his attention would really cause a marital strife that I don't want to deal with when he's leaving Weds for a two week DET.